What If You Don’t Love Your Child’s School Pictures?

School pictures are a wonderful tradition. They give us that year-by-year record of our kids growing up—missing teeth, changing hairstyles, awkward stages and all.

But what happens when this year’s school picture just doesn’t feel like your child?

Maybe the expression seems forced. Maybe the pose or crop feels a little strange. Maybe their hair looked great when they left the house and considerably less great after lunch and recess.

The good news is: your annual school-age portrait doesn’t actually have to be taken at school.

Consider Your Family Photographer Instead

One option many parents don’t think about is simply calling the photographer who already photographs your family.

A professional photographer may be able to create that same annual “school portrait” for you—but in a much more relaxed environment.

Your child isn’t waiting in a long line. You can choose a time of day when they’re rested and generally at their best. You have more control over their clothing, hair and preparation.

And because it’s one-on-one, there’s time for your child to actually become comfortable in front of the camera.

That can make a surprisingly big difference.

Mom or Dad Can Be There, Too

Another advantage is that you can usually be right there during the session.

You know your child better than anyone. You can see whether the smile looks natural, whether their hair needs a quick adjustment or whether they need another minute to relax.

At our studio, we also show parents the photographs right after the session.

That means there’s no wondering for weeks whether you got a good one.

You actually get to see it and choose it.

And if something simply didn’t work? We can photograph it again.

Experience With Kids Matters

A good children’s photographer isn’t just thinking about getting a technically correct photograph.

Lighting and posing certainly matter. But so does knowing how to work with kids.

Sometimes you talk with them. Sometimes you make them laugh. Sometimes you give them a little space. And sometimes you know exactly when to press the shutter because there they are—that expression Mom recognizes immediately.

At The Imagery, we’re now in our 28th year, and Rod has spent decades photographing children and families. One of our biggest goals is that the parent loves the portrait—but also that the child looks at it and feels good about themselves.

That matters, too.

Ask About School-Portrait Specials

Here’s another tip: ask your photographer whether they offer a school-picture special.

You might be surprised.

Some studios offer short sessions specifically for annual school portraits, particularly during the fall.

At The Imagery, for example, we offer a school portrait mini-session and match the pricing of your school portrait package.

We do this for families who weren’t thrilled with the school picture they received, families who decide to skip school picture day entirely, and also quite a few homeschool families who still want that traditional portrait from every grade.

So before assuming a professional studio will be too expensive, it’s worth asking.

The Goal Is Simply a Portrait You’ll Want to Keep

There’s certainly nothing wrong with traditional school photography. For many families, it works beautifully.

But if your child’s school picture comes home and you don’t love it, you have options.

Call your family photographer.

Ask whether they offer a simple annual portrait session.

Choose a time when your child is at their best, take a few extra minutes getting ready, and create something that actually feels like them.

Because twenty years from now, you probably won’t care where their third-grade portrait was taken.

You’ll just be glad you have one you love.

The Imagery Portrait Photography
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